How to Call About a Late Delivery

Last updated: March 10, 2026

Your package didn't show up. Now you have to call someone about it. Here's who to call first, what to say, and how to actually get your stuff (or your money back).

Why this call feels hard

You're not sure whose fault it is. Was it the retailer? The carrier? Did someone steal it off your porch? In 2024, approximately 1.7 billion packages were lost or damaged during delivery in the U.S. alone (Pitney Bowes Parcel Shipping Index). There's this weird guilt about complaining, like you don't want to be "that person." But you paid for something and it didn't arrive. That's not being difficult -- that's expecting the basic thing you were promised.

The other part: phone trees. Carrier phone systems are notoriously long. The good news is you should almost always call the retailer first, and that's usually a much easier call.

Before you call

Pull up your order confirmation email and have this ready:

Script: Calling the retailer about a late delivery

This is your first call. Always start here.

You say

"Hi, I'm calling about an order that was supposed to arrive by [date] but hasn't shown up. My order number is [number]. Can you tell me what's going on with it?"

They'll look up your order, check the tracking, and usually tell you either it's delayed in transit or it shows as delivered (when it wasn't). From there:

Script: Calling the carrier (UPS/FedEx/USPS)

Only call the carrier if the retailer asks you to, or if the retailer is unresponsive.

You say

"Hi, I have a package with tracking number [number] that was supposed to arrive by [date]. It still shows [in transit / out for delivery / delivered] but I don't have it. Can you help me locate it?"

The carrier can sometimes give you more specific location info, or start a trace on the package. But they can't refund you or send a replacement -- only the retailer can do that.

Script: Requesting a replacement for a lost package

You say

"It's been [number] days past the delivery window and the package still hasn't arrived. I'd like to request a replacement shipment. Is that something you can do?"

Most retailers will reship without much pushback, especially if the tracking is stuck or shows delivered when it wasn't. If the item is out of stock, they'll offer a refund instead.

Script: Requesting a refund for a very late delivery

You say

"I've been waiting [number] days past the promised delivery date. At this point I'd like a full refund. I shouldn't be paying for something I never received."

Say this calmly and directly. You're stating a fact, not making a threat. If they resist, you have one more card to play.

If they say "wait longer"

Sometimes they'll try to buy more time. Here's how to hold your ground:

Tips

Always get a case number and the name of the person you spoke with.

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